if anyone wants to talk about the natural human body i have spent the last 5 years personally exploring it and living as much as possible without the influence of capitalism or the patriarchy. to the extent i lived bare foot in the wilderness with no personal hygiene for years. i have tracked hormonal cycles in relation to everything in my life. I have spent the last 4 years working on my posture and reshaping my body, muscles and facia. Its a special interest. but as everyone’s body issues are different, i would happily talk to people in DM so as not to trigger anyone else. i am much more interested in how we use our bodies than what we put in them for fuel as that is beyond my personal capacity.
“Women, shame and Aspergers”
My feeling of being waste material stuck to my soul early in life, and it’s been my biggest challenge to release that sense of worthlessness.
By Eva Angvert Harren
What is it about relationships that’s so hard to get?
I know that “everybody” has challenges with relationships, however when you are on the Spectrum, and socially blind, the odds against you are so much greater.
How can we keep friendships going without losing ourselves? Losing ourselves by people pleasing, or allowing behaviors that do not feel good to us?
How can we learn to put our Self first, our sense of self, our feelings of integrity and truth for us? How can we feel intact in who we want to be, and still have room for a friend or two? How do we do that?
I was overwhelmed with fear and shame, unable to see how that effected my behaviors. That debilitating feeling of fear … hundreds of forms of fear. And when I take a look at them, and follow the thread to the root cause, it always boils down to two things. Like they say in the twelve-step programs: I am either afraid of not getting what I want, or I am afraid of losing what I have. Bottom line!
Afraid of not getting love, approval, protection, respect and such. Or, afraid I will lose love, approval, protection, respect, or maybe a loved one, a job, a business opportunity, or the likes.
Trust the Science?
I’m not entirely sure why any science people say something is definite cause they always have to correct it. Check the replication crisis. Or any documentary…”previously science thought xyz. Now they discovered it’s abc”. It’s a pretty huge human ego issue thinking they know anything for sure when we are such a insignificant blip in the universe. As if some people think they can make sense of it 
Does Dick Size Matter?
if they want to perpetuate the stupidity of the effectiveness of a dick being a number of inches then ill play into their insecurities about the size of their dicks 
or I sell them on my opinion of dick quality being not just a number and tell them to take me excl to find out more!!! or if im being sassy ill just laugh.
RadFems and Porn
It’s so weird that rad fems blame the porn industry for porn culture. When porn and prostitution have always existed. The problem isn’t porn. It’s the MAINSTREAM commodifying porn imagery. This is cause sex is so suppressed that masses enabled porn to spill over in to the mainstream. Instead. Let’s make porn and Sex work the way to show people how female led sex is and can be!!!! That is what I do every day.
WOMEN…The Majority is WOMEN!
Minorities won’t have equality until the majority have equality!!!!
Embodiment
ive shaped my body and mind from the outside in. and been uncomfortable
now im finding out what is comfortable and seeing who that makes me on the outside
Moving Like Animal
Ok so this is one of my special interests, so I’m sorry for the info dump. and it not being a specific tip, but I got excited!!! I’m more motivated to move now more than I ever have been because I stopped trying to exercise, stopped thinking of doing a set event where I’m focused on getting fitter or thinner or stronger! Instead I have found ways I enjoy playing and moving in my body that I always enjoy and trying to move more in general. I free dance/move around super weird. I free stretch/ move around super weird. I work on my posture and alignment/stand or lie around weirdly. I walk. Anywhere will do. Around the block can be as good as a elaborate hike. I really enjoy seeing the places change through the seasons. I think about my posture and try to be in my body and the present when I’m walking. I use movement as meditation. When I’m at home, I practice handstands when I’m walking to the toilet or waiting for something in the kitchen. etc… I’m a loner so my activities are solo, but if you have family or friends to do activities with, you could do a bigger range of activities. Anything from disk golf with friends, to climbing up the stairs with your kids while pretending its Mt Everest. Any way and any time spent in your body can be exercise, in its benefits, if not in style! I am more happy with how I feel in body and how it functions, from just generally moving more, and more mindfully, than when I lifted for 3 hours a day or ran etc. i feel so much happier and more alive than when i always felt guilty for not wanting to force myself to do exercise for x amount of hours y times a week.
TLDR: Move in anyway you want, for as long or short a time you have, whenever you can. It can become second nature to be active when its dispersed throughout your life.
Do You Work Out?
I am a very active person but I would say no if someone asked if I exercised. And I think this is part of the mindset that helps me be so active!!! I have found ways I enjoy moving my body. I used to swim, gym, lift, run, yoga, meditate. I dropped all formal movement practices and moved into my own body. I love free dance and free stretching, and walking is my mental health life saver. I also like functional fitness,
I Like Jeeping
My ex husband got me into it. Spent our tax return on doing up a jeep and left me before I got to have a trip in it. My ex were I am now was a off road guide. But also a total fuck boy who destroyed me. Glad you found a good one and actually get to have fun trips!!! I gotta get my own vehicle cause me and men = bad.
Another Thing I Wanted To Say, But Didnt.
Hi. I wanted to DM you about this rather than put it in the main mod channel as i dont want to offend anyone. I was thinking about a channel for the opposite of the srs chats. like a light/joy/boasting/excess positive channel for text and maybe video. It is very hard to share joy and light when there are so many people here struggling, without seeming insensitive. One doesnt want to derail the conversation or seem to be ignoring the issues being shared. We are bonding a lot over heavy issues, and it would be really nice to have a space to bond over shining, where it doesnt put people suffering in the shade. I have no idea if addressing this is ok. but i have to be honest and share what I am seeing and experiencing. I want this place to work and we need to keep space for light stuff as well as heavy.
Autism Experiences
It’s cool to have been bullied and abused for being myself all my life instead of anyone caring enough to realize I have a debilitating mental illness.
Wished I Could Ask People This.
do any of you get debilitated by the reality of how awful humans are and how fucked the world is? on a existential, grand, fundamental reality scale, not like, “lots of people have been mean to me and they suck”. But as in the trajectory of humanity is totally fucked and has been for tens of thousands of years and no one is looking to or willing to do anything about it? or even admit its all fucked up and wrong. and its getting exponentially worse.
National Debt…
Jeasus fucking Christ. Why does anyone even talk about national debt?!!! Debt to who?!! It’s not fucking real.
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