The Failure Of Sex Work is Work and Third Wave Feminism
No More Feminism The Failure Of Sex Work is Work and Third Wave Feminism The Middle: The Human Sexual Reality Between Religion and Sex Passivity Why I Dont Need The SJWs or RadFems To Save Me Instead of wanting to tear down sex work and destroy and deny reality I am actively looking at a way to make it work based on reality and I try and do this every time I work, from what I share, how I do it and my boundaries within my work. Its hard work and life would be easier if I didnt, but I wouldnt be able to live with myself. And might as well do any other job that makes me hate myself, break down and get fired. White Pill Sex Work What Do I do? I always emphasise that I am here for my pleasure as much as theirs, and that they… Read More "The Failure Of Sex Work is Work and Third Wave Feminism"
White Pill /First Principle Sex
My core idea: The possibility of how life could be if we took away the narratives of sex and sexuality. To be the example of how to enjoy sex and life, free of these narratives. Sex is a bodily function of the human animal. (Female vulnerability is our duty. Male bravery is theirs.) Read More "White Pill /First Principle Sex"
The Body Is The Answer. Sex Needs To Change.
This is a big one! A 3 part-er! Blair White and Buck Angel Inspiring Me To Talk! Part One Part Two Part Three Read More "The Body Is The Answer. Sex Needs To Change."
Yes All Men, But…
Yes all men but not blame all men. As women all we can do is figure out what we need, And how to get our needs met. We can ask men for their part in meeting their needs. At the same time men need to be doing the same, finding their unifying maleness and what they need, from first principles. And share their needs and ask for our part in that. And see how they fit! Then figure it out! Just the fundamentals. First Principles. A constitution for the sexual human body. Read More "Yes All Men, But…"
The Reason Its Yes All Men, To Me.
The reason it is “yes all men” to me is that the numbers I’ve personally experienced don’t match with any other claim. I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been sexually harassed (unwanted touching and above), raped or suffered partner abuse, were abused as children, and some or all of the above. Now, I have been raped 5 times. I have been in 1 extremely abusive relationship that broke my entire self for 6 years after, and another that got me addicted to cocaine. I have been inappropriately touched by literally countless men in bars and nightclubs (even though I expect it in that scenario, should I think its normal and ok?). I used to write down the “compliments” men would shout out their car or van windows to me as I walked to university and wear them with pride, I tried to take ownership of the constant onslaught… Read More "The Reason Its Yes All Men, To Me."
First Principles
Elon Musks’ “3-Step” First Principles Thinking: How to Think and Solve Difficult Problems Like a Genius In layman’s terms, first principles thinking is basically the practice of actively questioning every assumption you think you ‘know’ about a given problem or scenario — and then creating new knowledge and solutions from scratch. Almost like a newborn baby. On the flip side, reasoning by analogy is building knowledge and solving problems based on prior assumptions, beliefs and widely held ‘best practices’ approved by majority of people. People who reason by analogy tend to make bad decisions, even if they’re smart. Mayo Oshin Read More "First Principles"
Left/Right
left and right is just different ways of looking at the world Free speech Its exciting to challenge core beliefs Exhilarating Fear of the power of language to corrupt the masses – left right – worries that actions will corrupt the masses. Interesting development in free speech could define where I need to live Will free speech or protected speech produce the fastest progress? There is no identity until someone else looks at it. devils advocate is critical thinking, scientific process Left – externalise blame and externalise trauma corral the bad people and you can feel ok. Read More "Left/Right"
Resilience
We aren’t as resilient as previous generations and the less resilient we become, the less resilient the future generations become. Currently resilience is either taught through abuse, or neglect. Through being a hard ass parent and forcing you to be resilient, which builds resentment. The other way is through neglect, like with me. You learn resilience through not having any skills and then being traumatized and having to learn resilience. Not enough people are taught how to be resilient in a healthy way. It should be standard parenting practice. Our bodies and minds need to be resilient and capable of dealing with reality. Resilience is the skills and mental state to cope with the reality of the world and your life within it, enabling you to thrive and not be swayed by anything outside of you. The strength, understanding and skills to not be subjected to your own emotions and… Read More "Resilience"
Tinder Bio Advice For Guys
Here you go. When I was deep into the daily scroll, this is the information I would have liked to see, to get a real vibe of someone and not waste time!!! Tinder bio advice: A few examples of what you like, but with range; ie, “Im into dirtbikes, [podcast/tv/media interest], [other activity]. A idea of what youre looking for: ie Just looking/New to this/Im looking for something casual/I love going on dates/I am ready for a relationship/I’m looking for the one….written in your voice. An idea if youre indoorsy or outdoorsy. An idea if you prefer to party or stay home. Something to hint at your personality, if youre funny, a joke. A comment on something you like. Something youre excited about coming up for you. Pictures: Have different angles, some face, some doing stuff. One dimensional pics make it look like youre hiding something. Orrrr if youre just… Read More "Tinder Bio Advice For Guys"