Yes all men but not blame all men.
As women all we can do is figure out what we need,
And how to get our needs met.
We can ask men for their part in meeting their needs.
At the same time men need to be doing the same, finding their unifying maleness and what they need, from first principles.
And share their needs and ask for our part in that.
And see how they fit!
Then figure it out!
Just the fundamentals. First Principles.
A constitution for the sexual human body.