I am getting sick of seeing people online advocating for shit. Basic as fuck shit. Like today I saw some woman, like my age, “proving” that clothes stores don’t have uniform sizing. Holy. Fucking. 1995. What the fuck has she been doing the last 30 years?! How does she think this is worth bringing up?! Griping over everyday reality. The call for more gay rights?More rights for what?! Women, what is it that you can’t do in 2023? What is it that black, asian, Irish, Jewish or any other victim race can’t do? Women without kids, if you are so happy, why do you need to make videos to tell everyone you are happy and it’s not like others think. Erm. Someone who is happy doesn’t need others to agree with them. Someone who is living a certain way does not need to advocate that people need to be allowed/encouraged/represented, cause they are proof it is possible.
The thing that started me on this was seeing Scottee on some youtube clip, “sjw gets owned”. He didn’t really get owned. But he was trying to complain about something being unfair for lgbqwerty people and women. He also advocates for fat people and working class people having more access to things previously off limits to them, such as modelling, and lowering the bar so anyone can get good jobs without having to get a degree. Cause, fairness or something? Well this is a man, who is gay, who is married to his life partner, who doesn’t have a degree, and is a successful artist, performer and is now getting to go on TV shows to talk about some rights or something. Oh and all the people surrounding him who helped make him successful were women, all classes, all sizes. Soooooo what is it that fat, uneducated, gays and women cant do? You did it all mate. But you ran out of ideas so now you just bang on about how more people need rights. Did you not notice no one stopped you doing anything? Did you not notice none of those signifiers stopped you from achieving ANYTHING?! He achieved it all. And now is using that position to complain that, what? there aren’t 10, 50, 1000 more blokes exactly like him? Or that we should all get to be him? Or what that fat people don’t need to feel bad? Bitch its 2023 and Lizzo, Adele and Sam Smith are all morbidly obese.Same to the dumb bitch trying to “make other women feel better” about clothes sizes. Bitch its 2023, if someone feels bad about themselves cause of a clothes size, and that they are a 4 in one shop and a 12 in another, then THEY ARE A RETARD! This has been widely talked about for my whole aware life. Same goes for literally any other shit. “Ooh poor men, then need to be able to be emotional”, “boys cry too”. Are you fucking kidding? If you havent had this pumped into your ears non stop for the past 40-50 years you must have been locked away in a fucking bunker all this time. Its been a non stop drum beat. Same with any race, or sex issue. The things that are actually cultural problems we need to change don’t get addressed. In the olden days, before everyone felt the need to be an advocate, people made jokes about comunal complaints. Advocacy used to be a sense of humour. Now its dry, ignorant, unaware drivel about issues they clearly all have with their own body, mind or lifestyle.
Yo, jeans bitch, you feel bad about your weight because of clothes. Maybe loose some weight or educate yourself on the fact that jeans come in different cuts from different stores, find what you like, and fucking stick with it. Not hard. Yo Scottee. You feel resentful that it was soooo hard to be successful. Shut the fuck up, you achieved what you wanted in your career and life but you are still unhappy. It’s because you are stuffing down your reality. You hate your body and thus you are disconnected from reality. You aren’t having fun any more. If your mindset, and victim status makes you so miserable, maybe it’s time to reassess. Not so sure fat, gay, idiots are the bottom of the pile any more, seems they are the top. You are not a victim. you do not speak for victims. You have been successful since you were 17. Fuck off. Women don’t need you to make us look stupid. Thanks. Yo Chelsea Handler, if you were secure in your decision to not have kids, and your everyday life is so full, why do you need other people to agree? Why do you need to shout about your lifestyle? So other women can copy? Or cause you need external validation and a lot of your choices aren’t sitting well?
I could do this all day. Anything anyone advocates for is what they feel they are lacking in themselves. It is all projection. It is boring.
And the reason I am advocating to stop advocates, is cause we need to change the fucking record. Being a Human isn’t hard! Being a human today is and can be fucking easy for everyone. If someone is online saying we should all be doing a thing, and they are doing it, they do not need to scream to normalise it, ease access to it or see representation of it. You doing it, means it is possible. FOR ANYONE!
Oh but, but, but, poor, single parent family, bad education, bad genes, bad culture, bad place. So. The. Fuck. What. 99% of all these people have the little black box in their hand with all the information humans have assimilated about everything in the universe. And you’re telling me you are stuck?!!! Pathetic. I am writing this from a van I turned into a house with my own 2 hands from raw materials.I am in the middle of nowhere on my own. I’ve done this for years. I have a billion dollar view for free. I have no where I need to be and no thing I have to do. I get to live. Exist as a human. Move through the world as whoever I like. Less than 10 years ago I lived in Las Vegas, barbie stripper style. A whole different world, a whole different me and different reality. Less than 20 years ago I was a tour manager, a club promoter and a DJ. And now I am feral, alone, connected entirely to the wilderness. And I am just one person. No one told me no. And I never gave anyone the power to. My parents made me. As did yours and all of us. And what they gave me was total freedom with support. Do what you want as long as it makes you happy. Dad would always say he has no right to tell me what to do or not to do, as he always got to do what he wanted, and he did a lot! Things work out better when you take responsibility for your own choices. I would be so frustrated and angry if something went wrong when I followed someone else’s advice compared to just doing what I want. At least I tried, even if it goes wrong. It’s like if someone breaks something of mine, I would be more mad than if I broke it. So it’s easier to not let people fiddle with my stuff. Same for my brain and my body and my whole damn life.
Oooh you can’t do that, you can’t say that. Says who motherfucker? I don’t see anyone holding you back. Black people can’t do xyz. Oh right, is there a person with their hand on their chest not letting them enter? Standing screaming over their shoulder? No? It’s just a conceptual pressure? Get the fuck out of here. You can move through this world exactly how you want, who ever you want, as long as it doesn’t force others into partaking, if you are willing to accept and work with the consequences.
The consequences for me is that I am alone. However, I prefer being alone as it means I have total freedom. Chicken and egg, catch 22, but in a good way. I don’t like people cause they do have an impact on my thinking. And I hate it. I don’t need someone else’s insecurities affecting my reality. You got a parent who doesn’t want you doing xyz? Yeah it’s because they are pussies. Just because someone else wouldn’t bungee jump, or move out or get a certain job or leave a town, doesn’t mean you have to live to their limitations.
In 2023 in America, every single human has equal rights. We have for at least 50 years. And now with the internet, we have equal access to all information, education, special interests, hobbies, jobs, places and people. There is zero excuse to not do what you want. There is zero reason why ANYONE needs to “advocate” for anything else at all. Its all individual from here. You have a problem with black people getting shot by police, well it was 11 last year. 11. What about people killed by drunk drivers, or police who kill twice as many white people or the fact that pretty much any stat drowns out this pathetic cause. The problem isn’t with any issue. Its with perspective. The individual’s perspective, to the social and cultural perspective. We are pushing the victim perspective in a time of super abundance. It’s embarrassing. It’s Scottee complaining about all the things he achieved.
Instead of advocating for things to be possible, or normal or allowed, how about just do it and share the joy of it? How about instead of complaining that it’s hard, celebrate you achieved something hard? Instead of saying all the things women, men, gays, fats, blacks, what the fuck evers, can’t do, maybe we should be just telling our stories of what we do do.
The idea that women have only just gotten liberated is the biggest joke of all. America was built with bare hands. Women and men. It wasn’t just men who conquered the west. Women were there every step of the way. Claiming women only have liberation now cause they can twerk for daddy and get an abortion completely overlooks and sodomises all the amazing, raw, real shit women have done since the beginning of time. If women weren’t there at all the hard times, doing all kinds of shit, there would be no humans left. Fucking idiots. Oooh but women couldn;t…..they couldn’t what bitch? Give me that little black box and ill find you many women within 10 seconds throughout history who have.
Either do the thing you are saying you can’t or just shut up. Get out of the victim, scarcity mindset. You don;t have to be a survivor to be worthy of just getting on with life. Not everything has to be a struggle and the hero story. If some dumb bitch is mad about something that made her feel bad, do some internal reflection. Turn that camera lense back on yourself and say the damn thing to you. You are the one you need to convince. No one else.
Privilege is the consequence of good decisions made before you. Nothing to apologise for. My parents got life right. Yours didn’t? Boo hoo, same for most people. So how are you going to fix it? Complain? Or just do the damn thing you want? I have no idea why people want everyone else to come up the same ladder after them. I don’t necessarily mean pull the ladder up. But every single person is capable of making or finding their own ladder and putting it where the fuck they want it. Why would I want other people crowding my ledge, my mountain top, my view. They can make it on their own. Then I can look at them with respect, an equal. Not someone who got to climb the ladder I made from scratch, found the perfect spot for and went up.
Education should be about realising the amount and possibility of information humanity has and plotting your own course through it, based on your interests, for each person’s whole life. We do not have enough time to properly understand one thing, let alone the universe, so why only teach the basics for 15 years? Education should be an attitude towards the infinite body of human knowledge.
Culture can be focused around the stories of reality. Who built the roads? What life is this person living? Not sensational, not drama, not advocacy or representation. But just telling stories of real people’s lives. Music coming from reality and real people. Not manufactured lifestyle porn. Not capitalistic conceptual control. Beauty and a capturing of reality should be the goal. Art is a cheap synthesis for the patterns and sublimity of nature. Culture of nature, of experiencing it, not documenting it.
How to be a human, basic skills. Movement is our constant state. Stretch. Walk. Fix your posture. Become embodied by developing a deep relationship with your physicality through massage and mirror work. Eat whole foods, only when you are hungry. We don’t need “meals”. It can be as simple as one food type, not 3 – 6 different components.
Language is the simulation.
Intimacy is the only reality in relationships. Language can never substitute for the knowing of feeling.
Sex is our first principle. Everyone has to get over it. It is not taboo. It is not dirty. It has NO narrative around it. Sex does not mean anything. Who you fuck does not mean anything. They are actions. My body doesn’t store stories of judgements and morals. Neither does anyone else’s. Some people will thrive in traditional relationships. Some will want and be very happy being promiscuous, being sex workers, or having non traditional relationships. Figure out which you are and do it. No need to be ashamed. No need to pretend you are one and not the other. Its meaningless. Two different worlds. I don’t care that a man who wants a wife and kids wouldn’t find me relationship material. Just as I am not mad I cannot fuck all married men. If you know your reality and do what is right for you, you have nothing to “regret”, feel ashamed about or that would affect anyone else negatively. If you know you are a bloke who just wants to fuck, don’t tell a girl you wanna date her. Don’t pretend to be that which you are not. It only creates more problems for everyone. There are enough promiscuous women out there to enjoy yourself honestly.
Stop lying to people. Everyone makes shit up to fit in. It’s such a bore. You lead people to think you are something you are not. And then THEY have to deal with the consequences.
We all have to deal with the consequences, your choice or not. So why not deal with the consequences of being you, honestly, once you have figured out what that is.
The variety of ways its is possible to live, in America in 2023, seem infinite. If life seems too boxed in and limited, I would imagine you are not aware of all those possibilities and have only seen what you know. Right now there are people living in suburban houses, apartment buildings in downtown, Armish families without any tech, people living in wooden shacks on hundreds of acres of land, people living in caves, mud huts, penthouses, farms, ranches, small holdings, in cars, in tents, in vans, on land covered in a rusting collection, an incestuous family shut off from the world, people with end of the world bunkers, communes, independent communities. There is so much land and space that anyone could just go start a town or space to live exactly how they want. There are more ways to survive than even that, jobs, ways of living, to mix in with where and with who. If you think you are suffering because you can’t afford an apartment in the city, just think, if you really wanted, you could strap on a backpack and walk anywhere in the world.
I met a boy who was cycling from Canada to Arizona, in flip flops, cause he wanted to. Was it hard? Yes. Did he have an amazing, life changing time? Yes. Does he know freedom? Hell yeah. You can literally do anything.
Ooh nooo I need an abortion and I’m poor and live in Florida. Well bitch, you got 9 months to walk your ass to Colorado cause they will kill it after you pop it out. Is it really that important? Probably important enough to make social posts, attend protests, panic, get stressed and depressed about. But is it important enough to realise that if you really, really, really need something, you can do it. I have no sympathy for people who want something but don’t do it cause it’s hard. Yep. Life is hard. Might as well work hard at what you want than at complaining. If you want something enough, you will do it.
You have no money, you are poor. You can walk anywhere for free. You can walk out into the wilderness and set up camp. You can walk through the most expensive hotels in the world and use their pools. You can buy stuff and return it. You can make yourself look like you fit in anywhere, and you get to see the world. For free. You pack your own snacks, and go on the damn adventure. It’s free to walk in a park. And if you use your imagination, anywhere can become somewhere to explore, even your own living room.
I have no idea why homeless people gather in the city. It seems way more of a social choice than a comfort choice. Its easier to hang out with people in a shit infested open drug den than it is to walk to a forest, or a wilderness area and figure out how to survive. But any one of them could do it at any moment. Do we really need to care about the people who choose to turn our cities into shit holes instead of finding a way for themselves to do something different? It doesn’t take money or education or resources. It takes imagination and a creative mind. Those things can be taught. The lack of curiosity of the masses is cause they don’t even know there is shit worth being curious about. All that needs to change is the perspective on the situation. Have the right perspective and infinite choices become available.
I’m sick of the eggshells, pussy footing, baby coddling bullshit society we live in now and it is sucking us down. We live in a time of super abundance and true freedom. The cultural and social narrative needs to change. We need to support and celebrate reality. And stop externalising our own internal experiences. Realise a uncomfortable internal experience is a dysfunction in YOUR PERCEPTION, not in the reality of the world.
Perception and narratives in our culture is creating an atmosphere of fear, panic and victimhood. I know, I was one of them. I now am and can do anything I want, but nothing is any different in my reality than when I was suicidal. My life hasn’t changed since I was too depressed to get out of bed for years. What has changed is my perspective on my life, on the world, on humanity, on hard work, achievement, purpose. There is no reason anyone should be living in hell cause of their perspective, when it is the culture that is creating hell. Comunal complaining used to be called comedy. Now everything is serious and hard. Even tho its easier. The loss of meaning and constant state of existential crisis of the people of nations creates a feeling of scarcity and victimisation. When in fact, anything is possible, and we live in a time of super abundance.
What narrative do you think will have more impact on the world? 1. Black people can’t do shit cause other people don’t like your skin colour. They have always made life harder for you. It will be very hard to succeed in life as you are black. You will experience crime and hate. OR 2) This is what allllll the black people before you have achieved. There were black women vital to the war. There were black cowboys. Today news anchors, judges, even the fucking president has been black. You literally get to do whatever you want. If you do want to achieve anything in life, there will be jealous, insecure people who will try to pull you back down. And that happens to all people trying to be more than average. Keep going.
I know which we are living through and I know which will work. They are not the same. And it is really just pathetic to complain. It’s 2023, we have so much, we have freedom cause of technology. We HAVE to shift the perspective cause we are already free, but the current perspective is blind to that reality.